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COFFHA Team Visits LASUTH, Gave Financial Assistance To In-Patients

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2021 COFFHA Food Day

COFFHA, on Saturday March 27, 2021, held its annual Food Day event in Lagos. The event, themed COFFHA Feeds The Needy, was held at the open space under the bridge at the National Stadium, Surulere, Lagos.

Due to the challenges as a result of the COVID-19 global crisis, The Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) rose up to the challenge to alleviate the effect of the pandemic by making provision for food items to be distributed amongst needy men, women, youths and children in the Surulere Local Government of Lagos State.

The event, which took over three hours to conclude, was generously supported by the Chairman of the Surulere Local Government which provided adequate security throughout the duration of the event.

Over 2,000 food packs and drinks were shared for the locals as people came out en masse for the event, including the physically challenged, law enforcement officers, destitutes and street urchins popularly known as area boys.

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COFFHA 2020 Virtual Summit: Curbing the Rising Incidents of Sexual Abuse in Africa

The Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA)  held its inaugural annual summit on Wednesday, 4th of November, 2020. The theme of the event was ‘Curbing the Rising Incidents of Sexual Abuse in Africa.’

The summit which was held virtually had Ambassador Arikana Quoa, Founder and President of the Africa Diaspora Development Institute (ADDI) as the keynote speaker. Other lined up speakers included Her Excellency (H.E.), Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi – the First Lady of Ekiti State; Anita Kemi DaSilva – Ibru MD, MPH – Founder, Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF); Mr. Peter Mancha – Programme Manager, UN Women and Mr. Ubong King – President, Ubong King Foundation. A notable personality at the summit was Her Excellency (H.E.), the First Lady of Enugu State, Mrs. Monica Ugwuanyi.

There has been a long history of Gender Based Violence (GBV) though barely reported and mostly undocumented. Due to stigmatization and humiliation, women are unwilling to report cases of sexual harassments and domestic violence, thereby leading to an insufficiency documentation of tangible data around the subject matter.

As the society began to encourage women to speak up, there has been remarkable increase in the reports and documentations of the incidences such as incest, rape, molestation, and sexual abuse. The increase in the willingness of women to speak out gave rise to the number of reported GBV incidences that have been on the increase in the last three years. The year 2020 experienced a surge in GBV cases, especially during the months of the lockdown precipitated by the COVID-19 global pandemic. The media was awash with reports that show the alarming spike in incidents and consequences of GBV over the last six months. Local media reported that almost 4,000 schoolgirls got pregnant in Kenya while there was a 50% increase in GBV within the first six months of 2020 in Liberia. In Nigeria, due to the alarming rise in GBV incidents during the lock down and public outcry, all state governors declared a state of emergency on GBV in June, 2020. The rise of GBV cases during this period of pandemic is not peculiar to Africa alone as WARIF report stated that there has been an increase in GBV cases globally by 20%. France and Argentina reported 30% and 25% increase in cases of domestic violence during the lock down respectively.

The virtual summit was kicked off by the COFFHA’s Publicity and Marketing Executive, Chizor Malize, who shared that Community of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) has executed several community developmental programmes for over two decades of its existence and to take the narrative further, COFFHA has brought together knowledgeable individuals to share insights on the shadow pandemic – sexual abuse which has risen steeply during the COVID-19 global pandemic.  She also said that ‘’COFFHA is visionary and dynamic in seeking ways to bring knowledge to the forefront. One of such is enabling discussions and deliberations around sustainable solutions to address the increasing rise in sexual abuse in Africa.’’

According to Nkechi Ali-Balogun, the President of COFFHA, in her welcome address stated that the GBV including rape, domestic violence and sexual abuse has assumed a serious dimension globally. It has increased at an alarming rate in Africa and Nigeria. The GBV has remained a shameless masquerade in the society. She further shared that the lockdown due to the COVID-19 global pandemic portrayed a quantum rise in rape and sexual violence reports – “Within the last nine months, women have been expose to sexual harassments  thus making it a shadow pandemic.” This informed the need to put together this intellectual discourse to share, advocate, and advance sustainable solution to this hidden threat.

Her Excellency, Ambassador Arikana Chihombori Quao, in her keynote address shared that sexual abuse is not just an African issue, but a world-wide phenomenon and it needs to be uprooted from the roots by engaging the route of education. Speaking on how to curb GBV, “Serious legislation needs to be discussed and introduced. The more we talk about the issue in platforms like this, the more we continue to remind and empower the girl child that it’s fine to speak up. We also need to create more shelters for victims of GBV.  Girls that are abused by family members can be put under a roof where they can be assured of safety and protection.’’

She commended the efforts of COFFHA for putting together the apt and impactful seminar, indicating that the forum would serve as an avenue to highlight and amplify the voices of the voiceless which are the women and girls.

Speaking at the summit, the First Lady of Ekiti State, Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi posited that a lot has been done at the state and national level to curb GBV in Nigeria. However, there is a need to deepen the intervention strategies. She brilliantly highlighted eight different intervention strategies that the government, institutions and individuals can adopt to curb the rising menace. The first is the need to continue the call for a state of emergency on GBV. According to her, it is more impactful if all arms of government, as well as public institutions declare their own state of emergency on GBV and apply it to their various institutions. Other strategies listed by her include effective implementation of legal and policy frameworks, effective coordination of mechanisms for curbing GBV at national and state levels, more women empowerment initiatives, community ownership, ensuring treatments, care and protection mechanisms for GBV victims, funding and provision of psychosocial support for victims and lastly, more partnerships.

‘’Government needs to execute more women empowerment initiatives. When women are empowered educationally and financially, then we can break the circle of suffering and oppression. Also, communities need to own the issue. They need to buy into the argument that we cannot have a society that condones violence against women and girls. When a community buys into this conversation, they will unlikely sabotage government and institutions’ efforts in the fight against GBV,’’ she said.

Kemi DaSilva-Ibru, in her presentation revealed that within two weeks of the lockdown, WARIF recorded a 72% increase in distress calls received with 64% of the calls being women at risk. Over 3,600 rape cases were recorded across Nigeria during the lockdown which pushed for the call for state of emergency declared in June, 2020.

 

According to her, sustainable solutions that Non-Governmental Organizations can implement include development of comprehensive health services for women at risk via services provided at Sexual Assault Referral Centres, promotion of the need for education and implementation of educational programmes, creation of awareness and advocacy about violence against women in all communities targeting different audiences and groups,  collation and provision of collated data to monitor trends and patterns, and inclusion of boys and men in the conversation.

Peter Mancha in his session noted that weak mechanism for the prevention of sexual violence including monitoring and reporting mechanisms continues to account for the rising incidence of GBV cases amongst other factors. “The COVID-19 global pandemic has deepened pre-existing inequalities, exposing vulnerabilities in social, political and economic systems,’’ he said. He again emphasized the strong need for support from men in fighting GBV.

Ubong King, also a speaker at the summit, listed that culture and religion has played a huge part in the rise of sexual violence. Women have been second placed and their voice subdued. He pushed for the empowerment of women, enlightening them of their value and potentials and the education of men as core players in curbing sexual abuse in Africa and globally.

By virtue of registration, over 200 participants from all walks of life signed up for the summit. Feedback from attendees of the session acknowledged that the summit was highly revealing and exposing. It also proffered practicable and result-driven solutions to the shadow pandemic facing countries globally.

The post-event publicity was well publicized in several top Nigerian newspapers, thereby giving the event wider coverage for people who couldn’t attend the event when it was aired.

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COFFHA Visits LUTH, Gives Cash Support to Indigent Sick Children

Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) in furtherance to its vision to provide humanitarian assistance to alleviate the sufferings amongst women and children, visited the Pediatric Ward, Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi Araba, Lagos recently to provide emotional and financial support to indigent parents of children battling with different ailments at the hospital.

The COFFHA visit saw hope ignited among the beneficiaries as the charity organisation gave cash support to over 25 children from indigent families. The cash donation which many beneficiaries considered as a timely intervention was gladly received by parents of the sick children who expressed their gratitude for their kind gesture.

The beneficiaries include baby Joseph who has spent over 18 days in the incubator since after delivery, baby Agbeje, who has just been transferred from the incubator to a cot, a recently delivery in-born quadruplets among others.

Thanking the charity organisation for identifying with them in their time of need, one of the parents, Mrs Agbeja said the cash gift will go a long way in helping the family give their son the best treatment he needs to survive and live a healthy life.

The President, COFFHA, Mrs Carolyn Ufere, said the group, as part of its commitment to identifying with the needy amongst women and children, pays quarterly charity visits to orphans and sick people to give out cash support and other gift items to them. She said, “We usually organise a quarterly event where we give out cash, food and gift items to orphans and sick people. This time around we decided to come to LUTH and see babies that are from indigent homes to offer assistance to their families to enable them to get the needed medical treatment to overcome their predicament,” said Ufere.

Disclosing that the visit to LUTH was the third of its kind this year, Ufere said COFFHA understands how challenging it can be for parents managing sick children, especially the cost of providing adequate medical treatment. Against this backdrop among others, according to her, informed the group’s resolve for quarterly visit hospitals to give financial supports and other forms of assistance for the children.

Speaking further, COFFHA president appealed to the public, especially privileged individuals in the society, to spare a thought for the sick and show them love by extending assistance. “My message to people out there is that in whichever way and however little you can afford, please extend and give out to those who are in need. Lend a helping a hand, it goes a long way. It might not solve the entire problem but it goes a long way in affecting lives,” she said.

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COFFHA Celebrates 25th Anniversary

…..Pledges to give more support to underprivileged women, children

By Ngozi Okpalakunne

The hall of Bay Lounge in Lagos was recently filled to the capacity with men and women from different walks of life who came to celebrate with the Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA), a group of women who have excelled in their chosen professions, on their 25 years anniversary of existence.

The event worth its while as it gave the association opportunity to recognise and appreciate those that have supported them in the past years .

Speaking at the event, President of COFFHA, Mrs. Carolyn Akum Ufere said that her association’s vision is to bring hope and social justice where the less privileged can live in dignity and security, and added that COFFHA had been able to create a platform where the privileged can lend a helping hand to the under-privileged, thereby committing themselves to enhance better social life and livelihood in Nigeria.

Giving a brief background of how COFFHA came into existence 25 years ago, Mrs. Ufere said it was an ideal she conceived with two other women.

“ COFFHA was a dream conceived and started 25 years ago through the passion of three women who came together as friends carrying the same mandate for charity after which they invited other ladies of like minds”, she said.

The association she pointed out was made up of accomplished women of integrity in business and public service; with a mission to support, encourage and uplift the less privileged, widows and children in the society.

According to her, COFFHA has been sourcing for funds to care for the less privileged by tasking themselves, request for funds from friends as well as their husbands who have been there for them. . “It’s been a long journey this past 25 years and I’m happy today that we are still together doing the work of charity,” she added.

Ufere highlighted some of the projects executed so far by COFFHA to include : rehabilitation of a young woman called Esther and her baby who was abandoned by her parents due to teenage pregnancy; building and equipping of COFFHA emergency center at Isolo General Hospital, Lagos; refurbishment and furnishing of a 16 bed female ward at Apapa Health Center, Apapa, Lagos; donation of Kidney Dialysis Machine to Gbagada General Hospital; renovation of the Children’s ward B, General Hospital, Ikeja, Lagos.

Others were Widow Empowerment Project executed in Awka, Anambra State, and Lagos State; quarterly donation of food items and provisions to various orphanages within Lagos; donation of wheelchairs to Lagos Health Management Board, among others.

The Committee she revealed is not resting on its oars as it is planning to build an empowerment center for widows and the less privileged in the society.

In her words, “Our plan now is to build empowerment centre, the skill acquisition centre will be able to provide the necessary skills for the widows and less privileged in the society learn skills that can make them become self-sufficient, and also make them become independent without necessarily asking for alms”.

Speaking about the role of women in nation building, she said : “There is an adage that says, “when you educate a woman you educate the entire nation”, it is a whole lot, women should ensure that their children are well trained, they should support their husbands. Women should also ensure that the task they take up will impact positively on the person around them.

There is positive contribution to nation building when you have women as leaders”, she said.

Speaking earlier, the wife of Ogun State Governor, Mrs. Amosun described what COFFAH is doing as an encouragement for other women to come out and give a helping hand to the need in the society. She invited COFFHA to extend their activities to Ogun State, promising to work with the association. “We are ready to give a helping hand attires as long as it has to do with less privileged”, she added.

On her part, Mrs. Esther Oti who also spoke at the event, lauded the initiative of the women and added that their achievements so far would go a long way in ameliorating the plights of the underprivileged women and children in the country.

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COFFHA Cries out for justice against rape

The Committee of Friends For Humanity (COFFHA), an interest group for women, has described as dehumanising and disgusting the infamous rape incidents taking place among children in the recent times, the latest being the one that claimed the life of a young budding and intelligent girl of 14 years old, Obiamaka Ngozika Orakwe, who was violently raped by some young men to death.

COFFHA President, Mrs. Carol Ufere who lamented bitterly over the ugly incident, noted, “As parents particularly mothers we are alarmed by this development and we feel very sad and insecure. Government must ensure the safety of our children by providing adequate security in our communities.” She stressed that incidence of rape from studies continues to gain grounds worldwide because people pretend it does not exist, adding, “We tacitly accept the degradation of women while positing some behaviour of women as the root cause of rape. There is no denying anymore that rape is endemic to our culture and calls for a drastic approach for its eradication.”

Ufere who said this was a cry to government as a matter of urgency to put in place monitoring devices and surveillance on streets, added that government at all levels should find ways to gainfully engage the many of the youths loitering the streets. “Government must put in place and carry out punitive measures to deter other youths, no matter whose children they are, from such heinous crimes. We are using this medium to, particularly implore the Lagos State Government to add to their cap of many laurels, and help put an end to this ugly menace,” COFFHA President added.

COFFHA, Ufere said was not unaware of efforts of the state government through its Domestic Violence Department to protect women from all forms of gender-based violence. While lauding the government achievements so far, COFFHA however stressed the situation at hand calls for a review of existing efforts so as not to thwart the good intentions and great achievements of the state in this area. “We are pained to see that this menace is not abetting, rather it’s on the increase to the extent that a group of young boys will brazenly break into a home in broad daylight and commit such evil. As the famous saying goes, ‘The hottest places in hell are reserved for those who in time of moral crisis choose to remain neutral’. COFFHA will not remain neutral at a time like this. Our mission is to serve individuals and families in the poorest communities in the society, drawing strength from our individual diversities, resources and experiences,” the group noted further.

COFFHA is a charity, non-profit organisation created to provide humanitarian assistance in the society. The group has built its reputation over the years, on its ability to quickly respond to needs arising in the society wherever and however it can assist without discrimination on the ground of age, political or religious beliefs. Having been involved primarily with women and children among other things since its incorporation in January 1993, COFFHA has partnered with government in fighting molestation of women and children, bringing hope and social justice to the less-privileged so they can live in dignity and security.

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