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New Year Message

FROM THE DESK OF THE PRESIDENT OF THE COMMITTEE OF FRIENDS FOR HUMANITY
(COFFHA)

New Year Message
I bring you this new year message from my desk where I serve as the President of the Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA), a non-profit organisation with a mission to serve individuals and families in the poorest communities in the society, drawing strength from our individual diversities, resources and experiences. For over three decades, we have kept faith with our vision of bringing hope and social justice where the less privileged can live in dignity and security.

 

It is with profound joy and immense gratitude to God Almighty that I welcome you all to the year 2025. We made it!

 

The year 2024 came with its ups and downs. The economic situation was really challenging, filled with wars, strife, unrests, sicknesses and deaths but through it all the arm of the Lord was upon us, strong and mighty according to his promises. We are still here! Although some COFFHA members and patrons suffered one form of bereavement or the other, to the Glory of God, all COFFHA members and patrons are counted and complete. Glory to God!

 

The milestone of 2024 was attaining the observer status with the United Nations which came with the ability to attend the CSW68 conference, held in New York from the 11th of March to 22nd of March 2024. Attending the conference gave COFFHA the opportunity of observing firsthand the activities of other NGOs and their workings. It also afforded us the opportunity of networking and building collaborations both with the UN and other NGOs.

 

Other highlights for 2024 include the holding of our Annual General Meeting at Eko Hotels and Suites on the 13th day of June 2024. It was at that meeting that yours truly and other executive members were elected. Before the elections, on the 1st day of May 2024, COFFHA undertook feeding the poor through the ‘Food Day Initiative’ where about 500 people were fed.

 

COFFHA’s year-end outreach culminated in a heartwarming hospital visitation on December 8, 2024, at the General Hospital Lagos. This charitable endeavour brought joy and relief to over 50 patients. COFFHA’s kindness extended to settling hospital bills for discharged patients who were unable to return home, providing essential medications for diabetes and hypertension management, and offering Christmas stipends to those in need. As we enter the year 2025, it is my fervent hope and prayer that the economic challenges of 2024 will be bygones as we welcome a brand and favourable year.

 

To our members, let us continue to work hand in glove to uplift the poorest in our communities for that is our pledge.

 

To our patrons and donors, we thank you for your immeasurable support over the years. Your support played a crucial role in the positive remarks and response to our activities and the successes we have achieved. Your actions exemplify the values of generosity and social responsibility which foster a just, safe and fair society where everyone feels loved and cared for.

 

I humbly solicit your continued support in the current year as it would greatly assist us in achieving our goals of empowering, uplifting and making a difference in the lives of those we serve.

 

To every one of us, let us show a little kindness. Remember a life well lived is not evidenced by the wealth we manage to acquire for exhibition but by the testament of those we meet and the lives we positively touched.
Let us all listen and obey the word of Jesus in Matthew 25:40, “Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers that you do unto me.”

 

“I pledge to work closely with my executives to drive our goals and objectives forward with dedication and passion. Together, we aim to make the upcoming year a productive and engaging one, filled with activities that will impress our donors and patrons and in turn benefit those in need.

 

Stay tuned for our upcoming annual program which promises to be an exciting and fulfilling year!”

 

Keep working and keep believing!

 

Augustina Igbokwe
President, Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA)

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Coffha 7th Annual Grand Meeting

History was made once again on June 13, 2024, when the Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) held its 7th annual AGM at the prestigious Eko Hotel & Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos. During the AGM, the association’s audited accounts for 2022 and 2023 were presented and approved.

A highlight of the event was the election of new officers to lead the association for the next two years. The AGM was well attended both in person and virtually. The following distinguished women emerged as the new leaders:

  • Barr. Augustina Igbokwe, President
  • ChiefChizor Malize, Vice President
  • Lady Gloria Okeke, General Secretary
  • Lady Ngozi Okoro, Financial Secretary
  • Lady Uche Obi, Publicity Secretary
  • Oguefi Prisca Nwadialo
  • Lady Ijeoma Otti-Onyeri
  • Lady Obiageli Anubi, Welfare
  • Nkechi Ali-Balogun, Immediate Past President (Ex-Officio Member)

In her farewell speech, the Outgoing President, whose term lasted four years, encouraged the new executive team to build on the strong foundation established over the years. She urged them to lead COFFHAto even greater heights ofimpact and influence, emphasizing the importance of being champions of change, advocates for justice, and beacons of hope for women and children everywhere.

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COFFHA Team Visits LASUTH, Gave Financial Assistance To In-Patients

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2021 COFFHA Food Day

COFFHA, on Saturday March 27, 2021, held its annual Food Day event in Lagos. The event, themed COFFHA Feeds The Needy, was held at the open space under the bridge at the National Stadium, Surulere, Lagos.

Due to the challenges as a result of the COVID-19 global crisis, The Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) rose up to the challenge to alleviate the effect of the pandemic by making provision for food items to be distributed amongst needy men, women, youths and children in the Surulere Local Government of Lagos State.

The event, which took over three hours to conclude, was generously supported by the Chairman of the Surulere Local Government which provided adequate security throughout the duration of the event.

Over 2,000 food packs and drinks were shared for the locals as people came out en masse for the event, including the physically challenged, law enforcement officers, destitutes and street urchins popularly known as area boys.

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COFFHA 2020 Virtual Summit: Curbing the Rising Incidents of Sexual Abuse in Africa

The Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA)  held its inaugural annual summit on Wednesday, 4th of November, 2020. The theme of the event was ‘Curbing the Rising Incidents of Sexual Abuse in Africa.’

The summit which was held virtually had Ambassador Arikana Quoa, Founder and President of the Africa Diaspora Development Institute (ADDI) as the keynote speaker. Other lined up speakers included Her Excellency (H.E.), Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi – the First Lady of Ekiti State; Anita Kemi DaSilva – Ibru MD, MPH – Founder, Women at Risk International Foundation (WARIF); Mr. Peter Mancha – Programme Manager, UN Women and Mr. Ubong King – President, Ubong King Foundation. A notable personality at the summit was Her Excellency (H.E.), the First Lady of Enugu State, Mrs. Monica Ugwuanyi.

There has been a long history of Gender Based Violence (GBV) though barely reported and mostly undocumented. Due to stigmatization and humiliation, women are unwilling to report cases of sexual harassments and domestic violence, thereby leading to an insufficiency documentation of tangible data around the subject matter.

As the society began to encourage women to speak up, there has been remarkable increase in the reports and documentations of the incidences such as incest, rape, molestation, and sexual abuse. The increase in the willingness of women to speak out gave rise to the number of reported GBV incidences that have been on the increase in the last three years. The year 2020 experienced a surge in GBV cases, especially during the months of the lockdown precipitated by the COVID-19 global pandemic. The media was awash with reports that show the alarming spike in incidents and consequences of GBV over the last six months. Local media reported that almost 4,000 schoolgirls got pregnant in Kenya while there was a 50% increase in GBV within the first six months of 2020 in Liberia. In Nigeria, due to the alarming rise in GBV incidents during the lock down and public outcry, all state governors declared a state of emergency on GBV in June, 2020. The rise of GBV cases during this period of pandemic is not peculiar to Africa alone as WARIF report stated that there has been an increase in GBV cases globally by 20%. France and Argentina reported 30% and 25% increase in cases of domestic violence during the lock down respectively.

The virtual summit was kicked off by the COFFHA’s Publicity and Marketing Executive, Chizor Malize, who shared that Community of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) has executed several community developmental programmes for over two decades of its existence and to take the narrative further, COFFHA has brought together knowledgeable individuals to share insights on the shadow pandemic – sexual abuse which has risen steeply during the COVID-19 global pandemic.  She also said that ‘’COFFHA is visionary and dynamic in seeking ways to bring knowledge to the forefront. One of such is enabling discussions and deliberations around sustainable solutions to address the increasing rise in sexual abuse in Africa.’’

According to Nkechi Ali-Balogun, the President of COFFHA, in her welcome address stated that the GBV including rape, domestic violence and sexual abuse has assumed a serious dimension globally. It has increased at an alarming rate in Africa and Nigeria. The GBV has remained a shameless masquerade in the society. She further shared that the lockdown due to the COVID-19 global pandemic portrayed a quantum rise in rape and sexual violence reports – “Within the last nine months, women have been expose to sexual harassments  thus making it a shadow pandemic.” This informed the need to put together this intellectual discourse to share, advocate, and advance sustainable solution to this hidden threat.

Her Excellency, Ambassador Arikana Chihombori Quao, in her keynote address shared that sexual abuse is not just an African issue, but a world-wide phenomenon and it needs to be uprooted from the roots by engaging the route of education. Speaking on how to curb GBV, “Serious legislation needs to be discussed and introduced. The more we talk about the issue in platforms like this, the more we continue to remind and empower the girl child that it’s fine to speak up. We also need to create more shelters for victims of GBV.  Girls that are abused by family members can be put under a roof where they can be assured of safety and protection.’’

She commended the efforts of COFFHA for putting together the apt and impactful seminar, indicating that the forum would serve as an avenue to highlight and amplify the voices of the voiceless which are the women and girls.

Speaking at the summit, the First Lady of Ekiti State, Erelu Bisi Adeleye-Fayemi posited that a lot has been done at the state and national level to curb GBV in Nigeria. However, there is a need to deepen the intervention strategies. She brilliantly highlighted eight different intervention strategies that the government, institutions and individuals can adopt to curb the rising menace. The first is the need to continue the call for a state of emergency on GBV. According to her, it is more impactful if all arms of government, as well as public institutions declare their own state of emergency on GBV and apply it to their various institutions. Other strategies listed by her include effective implementation of legal and policy frameworks, effective coordination of mechanisms for curbing GBV at national and state levels, more women empowerment initiatives, community ownership, ensuring treatments, care and protection mechanisms for GBV victims, funding and provision of psychosocial support for victims and lastly, more partnerships.

‘’Government needs to execute more women empowerment initiatives. When women are empowered educationally and financially, then we can break the circle of suffering and oppression. Also, communities need to own the issue. They need to buy into the argument that we cannot have a society that condones violence against women and girls. When a community buys into this conversation, they will unlikely sabotage government and institutions’ efforts in the fight against GBV,’’ she said.

Kemi DaSilva-Ibru, in her presentation revealed that within two weeks of the lockdown, WARIF recorded a 72% increase in distress calls received with 64% of the calls being women at risk. Over 3,600 rape cases were recorded across Nigeria during the lockdown which pushed for the call for state of emergency declared in June, 2020.

 

According to her, sustainable solutions that Non-Governmental Organizations can implement include development of comprehensive health services for women at risk via services provided at Sexual Assault Referral Centres, promotion of the need for education and implementation of educational programmes, creation of awareness and advocacy about violence against women in all communities targeting different audiences and groups,  collation and provision of collated data to monitor trends and patterns, and inclusion of boys and men in the conversation.

Peter Mancha in his session noted that weak mechanism for the prevention of sexual violence including monitoring and reporting mechanisms continues to account for the rising incidence of GBV cases amongst other factors. “The COVID-19 global pandemic has deepened pre-existing inequalities, exposing vulnerabilities in social, political and economic systems,’’ he said. He again emphasized the strong need for support from men in fighting GBV.

Ubong King, also a speaker at the summit, listed that culture and religion has played a huge part in the rise of sexual violence. Women have been second placed and their voice subdued. He pushed for the empowerment of women, enlightening them of their value and potentials and the education of men as core players in curbing sexual abuse in Africa and globally.

By virtue of registration, over 200 participants from all walks of life signed up for the summit. Feedback from attendees of the session acknowledged that the summit was highly revealing and exposing. It also proffered practicable and result-driven solutions to the shadow pandemic facing countries globally.

The post-event publicity was well publicized in several top Nigerian newspapers, thereby giving the event wider coverage for people who couldn’t attend the event when it was aired.

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COFFHA Visits LUTH, Gives Cash Support to Indigent Sick Children

Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA) in furtherance to its vision to provide humanitarian assistance to alleviate the sufferings amongst women and children, visited the Pediatric Ward, Lagos University Teaching Hospital (LUTH), Idi Araba, Lagos recently to provide emotional and financial support to indigent parents of children battling with different ailments at the hospital.

The COFFHA visit saw hope ignited among the beneficiaries as the charity organisation gave cash support to over 25 children from indigent families. The cash donation which many beneficiaries considered as a timely intervention was gladly received by parents of the sick children who expressed their gratitude for their kind gesture.

The beneficiaries include baby Joseph who has spent over 18 days in the incubator since after delivery, baby Agbeje, who has just been transferred from the incubator to a cot, a recently delivery in-born quadruplets among others.

Thanking the charity organisation for identifying with them in their time of need, one of the parents, Mrs Agbeja said the cash gift will go a long way in helping the family give their son the best treatment he needs to survive and live a healthy life.

The President, COFFHA, Mrs Carolyn Ufere, said the group, as part of its commitment to identifying with the needy amongst women and children, pays quarterly charity visits to orphans and sick people to give out cash support and other gift items to them. She said, “We usually organise a quarterly event where we give out cash, food and gift items to orphans and sick people. This time around we decided to come to LUTH and see babies that are from indigent homes to offer assistance to their families to enable them to get the needed medical treatment to overcome their predicament,” said Ufere.

Disclosing that the visit to LUTH was the third of its kind this year, Ufere said COFFHA understands how challenging it can be for parents managing sick children, especially the cost of providing adequate medical treatment. Against this backdrop among others, according to her, informed the group’s resolve for quarterly visit hospitals to give financial supports and other forms of assistance for the children.

Speaking further, COFFHA president appealed to the public, especially privileged individuals in the society, to spare a thought for the sick and show them love by extending assistance. “My message to people out there is that in whichever way and however little you can afford, please extend and give out to those who are in need. Lend a helping a hand, it goes a long way. It might not solve the entire problem but it goes a long way in affecting lives,” she said.

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COFFHA Celebrates 25th Anniversary

…..Pledges to give more support to underprivileged women, children

By Ngozi Okpalakunne

The hall of Bay Lounge in Lagos was recently filled to the capacity with men and women from different walks of life who came to celebrate with the Committee of Friends for Humanity (COFFHA), a group of women who have excelled in their chosen professions, on their 25 years anniversary of existence.

The event worth its while as it gave the association opportunity to recognise and appreciate those that have supported them in the past years .

Speaking at the event, President of COFFHA, Mrs. Carolyn Akum Ufere said that her association’s vision is to bring hope and social justice where the less privileged can live in dignity and security, and added that COFFHA had been able to create a platform where the privileged can lend a helping hand to the under-privileged, thereby committing themselves to enhance better social life and livelihood in Nigeria.

Giving a brief background of how COFFHA came into existence 25 years ago, Mrs. Ufere said it was an ideal she conceived with two other women.

“ COFFHA was a dream conceived and started 25 years ago through the passion of three women who came together as friends carrying the same mandate for charity after which they invited other ladies of like minds”, she said.

The association she pointed out was made up of accomplished women of integrity in business and public service; with a mission to support, encourage and uplift the less privileged, widows and children in the society.

According to her, COFFHA has been sourcing for funds to care for the less privileged by tasking themselves, request for funds from friends as well as their husbands who have been there for them. . “It’s been a long journey this past 25 years and I’m happy today that we are still together doing the work of charity,” she added.

Ufere highlighted some of the projects executed so far by COFFHA to include : rehabilitation of a young woman called Esther and her baby who was abandoned by her parents due to teenage pregnancy; building and equipping of COFFHA emergency center at Isolo General Hospital, Lagos; refurbishment and furnishing of a 16 bed female ward at Apapa Health Center, Apapa, Lagos; donation of Kidney Dialysis Machine to Gbagada General Hospital; renovation of the Children’s ward B, General Hospital, Ikeja, Lagos.

Others were Widow Empowerment Project executed in Awka, Anambra State, and Lagos State; quarterly donation of food items and provisions to various orphanages within Lagos; donation of wheelchairs to Lagos Health Management Board, among others.

The Committee she revealed is not resting on its oars as it is planning to build an empowerment center for widows and the less privileged in the society.

In her words, “Our plan now is to build empowerment centre, the skill acquisition centre will be able to provide the necessary skills for the widows and less privileged in the society learn skills that can make them become self-sufficient, and also make them become independent without necessarily asking for alms”.

Speaking about the role of women in nation building, she said : “There is an adage that says, “when you educate a woman you educate the entire nation”, it is a whole lot, women should ensure that their children are well trained, they should support their husbands. Women should also ensure that the task they take up will impact positively on the person around them.

There is positive contribution to nation building when you have women as leaders”, she said.

Speaking earlier, the wife of Ogun State Governor, Mrs. Amosun described what COFFAH is doing as an encouragement for other women to come out and give a helping hand to the need in the society. She invited COFFHA to extend their activities to Ogun State, promising to work with the association. “We are ready to give a helping hand attires as long as it has to do with less privileged”, she added.

On her part, Mrs. Esther Oti who also spoke at the event, lauded the initiative of the women and added that their achievements so far would go a long way in ameliorating the plights of the underprivileged women and children in the country.

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